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What is a Voyeur?
Voyeurism is the sexual interest or practice of watching other people engage in sexual activities such as listening to others who are naked, undressing or engaging in sexual activity. Voyeurism is an acceptable fetish with all participants consent, but without consent it can be a sexual offense. For example, if your partner and participate allows you to watch them be intimate with each other because it turns you on, that's a consenual form of voyuerism. Voyeurs typically become aroused through visual stimulation. They may enjoy watching people undress, bathe and shower.
Pros:
- Curiosity and Exploration: Can satisfy natural curiosity about human behaviour, relationships, and social interactions. It can help individuals learn about different lifestyles or perspectives.
- Entertain and Relaxation: Watching others in a non-intrusive way can provide enjoyment and relaxation.
- Safe Exploration of Taboo Topics: In a safe and consensual environment, voyeurism can allow individuals to explore sexual fantasies or desires without direct involvement or risk.
Cons:
- Voyeurism that involve taking photos and videos without the victim's consent is a form of sexual assault/abuse. Even though there is no physical contact, it is a violating and traumatic experience.
1. Watch your partner undress or bathe
Watching your partner undress or bate can evoke a range of emotions and sensations, from intimacy and vulnerability to attraction and appreciation. It can be a deeply personal experience that fosters connection and trust between partners.
However, it's essential that such moments are consensual and mutually desired. Open communication about comfort levels, boundaries, and expectations is crucial to ensure that both partners feel safe and respected in these intimate moments. Engaging in these experiences can strengthen a relationship, but they should always be approached with care and consideration for each other's feelings.
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2. Watch your partner have sex with someone else
Those in an open relationship might enjoy threesomes or cuckolding as a hot way to watch a partner have sex with someone else. In this scenario, everyone can decide how the voyeur would like to watch. This could be through a wardrobe, window, listening from another room, participating etc. It is important to talk to everyone beforehand about boundaries and interest.
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3. Attend a sex party
Sex clubs are places that welcome people watching other people have sex. This works well as some people enjoy people watching them have sex. These parties are like any other social gatherings expect the people attending can have sex. Some clubs have designated seating areas so people can watch. It is expected to ask for permission to watch. It is important to read and learn the club rules before attending.
4. Watch porn
Many people explore their interests in many ways by searching the term. Watching porn is a personal choice and people have various reasons for doing so. There are many different live cams where you can watch individuals, groups or couples having sex. Make sure the porn is ethically made and that everyone one involved is consenting to the scene.
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5. Watch your partner masturbate
Watching your partner masturbate can be an intimate experience that some couples enjoy as a way to explore each other's desires and enhance sexual intimacy. It can foster connection, build trust and create a sense of shared pleasure. However, its important to communicate openly with your partner about boundaries, comfort level and consent. Everyone has different perspectives, so ensure that both partners feel safe and respected throughout the experience.
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Conclusion
Voyeurism enhances intimacy and sexual satisfaction for both partners.
Voyeurism allows both parties to explore different aspects of their sexuality without necessarily engaging in physical contact
When voyeurism is practiced consensually and ethically it can add number benefits to individuals and couples looking to enhance their sex lives.
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The Author: Sri-Lanka Pitter
Hey guys! Welcome to my blog. First let me introduce myself. My name is Sri-lanka (yes like the country) and no before you ask what is my connection to Sri-lanka, I was not born, conceived or visited. Hopefully one day I will! Everyone always asks me how I got my name. I am 33 and a bi-sexual.
I’ve created this blog because I often get asked about my sexual experiences as a voyeur and my threesomes along with the billionaire dollar question “don’t you get jealous?”. I also want people to open up and feel comfortable in their sexuality, kinks and fetishes. I will be covering a range of topics from sex parties, masturbation, sex toys, how to spice things up in the bedroom etc.
Disclaimer: I am not a qualified educator, everything that I write about is from personal experiences.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do you sleep with men too?
No. I have no desire sleeping with other men. We do not swap either. It is strictly woman only.
Do you get jealous when he is with other women?
No. It does the opposite for me. I am a voyeur and watching turns me on.
Has your boundaries ever been broken?
Yes. Read the inner whore blog.
Do you go to sex parties?
Yes we do but we prefer threesomes.
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